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Kayla's avatar

"He likes women with big butts and preferably blondes. I’m the opposite."

I mean...you could be blonde. That is a choice!

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Paul's avatar

For the looks preference question:

If you asked my pre marriage friends, they would choose 80% opposite of my wife. Most of my other partners are more aligned with this preferences but I still love and adore her.

Hell, watching her struggle squat into a pair of jeans is amazing.

That being said, I am her only person she has ever dated (and married of course) who was white.

We love and adore (as well as get angry at/disappointed in) one another.

You can have amazing relationships with people who don’t fit a preconceived mold.

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SlutStack's avatar

Well said. Don't let your "types" limit you. Sometimes individuals just captivate you for a variety of physical and non-physical reasons and it's wonderful to embrace that, even if they are out of distribution in some way.

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