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Chas's avatar

I’ve been asking cartoonshateher for clothing advice when I should have been DMing Chesed!

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Nagaramama's avatar

Bravissima! My husband took me on a hike on our first date but I already wanted him to drag me into a closet and fuck me so I guess he was the exception and not the rule. I was just lucky he also looks good in sweaters. Amazing tips, sending to all my straight male friends lookin' for a lady or ten.

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Specus's avatar

Thanks for the tips ladies. As an older gentleman who is on a weight loss journey, and slightly less muscular than the younger gentleman (but working on it), I like to wear polo shirts and a fleece with a comfortable pair of black jeans or chino type trouser. The jumper you suggested I would not wear in a million years ha ha ha, but then clothing can be very subjective. Keep up the good work!

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Not-Toby's avatar

🙏

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Learning Human ...'s avatar

I quite like the tone of the article feels quite like a more personal style. Just have a question. I tried to understand yhe text message. Bit what does it mean when he said "since you're very likely to put out". I tried infering it, or using translating apps. But it doesn't make sense to me. Thanks, and hope to read more of you both

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Josh Wallace's avatar

“Put out” is a somewhat old fashioned way of saying “have sex.” If English is not your first language, be a bit cautious about this one as it can be somewhat transactional

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Learning Human ...'s avatar

Thanks for the answer. About your second sentence, you mean that it often implies some kind lf transaction ? Or is used in this way ? Then if I were to understand the text message. The guy says: since she's probably gonna have sex with him, he doesn't mind taking her somewhere fancy ?

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Aniekan Akai's avatar

This is such great advice it took me years to figure it out. But I learned it. Gotta pass this on to the incels that haven't black pilled yet

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Lance Minnis LMT's avatar

How do we date Chesed? 😉😘

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Thomas Judge's avatar

Great tips!

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