Was I slutty enough this quarter?

Sexual frequency, orgasms, new partners, and trying to make a baby

I (Chesed) am not a quantified self lady. I enjoy reading about other people’s self-tracking and self-experimentation, but I tend to have neither the discipline nor the focus to carry it out. However, my most important project, trying to conceive, has required a lot of tracking. I’m peeing on sticks to track hormone changes, taking my temperature each morning, assessing my cervix’s height and texture and mucus, and dutifully logging intercourse. As a Slut, I began to be curious about more aspects of my sexual activity than my fertility app was equipped to handle. In the new year, I began a daily sex tracker.

A small snippet of my sex tracker. Note that the “blond co-wife” says that she is not actually blond. But the hand that writes the SlutStack is the hand that defines reality. She’s blond to me.

I’m not amazing at tracking and often had to catch up a few days later with the help of my calendar and occasionally input from partners (“Did I have one or two orgasms on Tuesday?”) The data I’ve collected is fairly accurate but imperfect, and my guess is that I’ve omitted 1-4 orgasms and possibly 1-3 occasions of 1:1 sex with my husband.

Caveats aside, I present to you my Q1 SlutStats: