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Troy B's avatar

I lost it at "orgynizers" 😂

But in all seriousness, thanks for this. I'm personally opposed to promiscuity and have tons of reservations about some of the kinks and fetishes that have become popular or destigmatized in the U.S. within the past ~20 years, but I'm steadfast in my belief that everybody ought to be able to make these sorts of decisions for themselves and pursue any lifestyle that they want to (within reasonable legal parameters, of course).

Personal opinions and beliefs aside, it's fascinating to learn about how one becomes motivated to engage in these behaviors, what they think about and feel as they experience them, and how they reflect on them and make sense of them afterwards. This was also quite well written; a very enthralling, amusing, and provocative read.

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Chas's avatar

Thanks for the vivid and immersive firsthand account of the Red Means No CNC orgy. I’ve always been curious about how these events unfold, and your detailed description, from the lighting and organization to the people and energy, really brought it to life. It sounds like an intensely exciting, and beautifully orchestrated experience. You must’ve been exquisitely exhausted by the end.

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Theodora's avatar

I weep with desire and frustration everytime I read a post. I hope this is in the cards for meee 🥺 might be time to finish my application

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SlutStack's avatar

oh my goodness, absolutely apply :)

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Theodora's avatar

Also fuck the creativity of RMN is insane. It always appears so fun and silly and i loveeee sex games

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Tarkhan's avatar

This is an incredibly sad and embarrassing thing to post. Sorry your husband is a cuck.

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James's avatar

I only read halfway and it's already the hottest thing I've ever read

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Dronom!'s avatar

Nigga you are disgusting

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James's avatar

?? Im not a nigga, also how can a reader discust you? Talk shit to the writer or something?

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Dronom!'s avatar

Because you’re a nasty perverted freak

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James's avatar

Bro,bm enjoy your missionary with a Mohawk, my nigga

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Dragonbrother7's avatar

Erm???… Trvkv!!!!!!!

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Dronom!'s avatar

I appreciate this Becky.

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James's avatar

Lol becky, you arent even the OP. Go the hell away.

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Timeline's avatar

I hope hell exists for everyone involved ❤️

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Garrett Phillips's avatar

Loved reading this piece, a glimpse into a world I've never come near because it's never presented itself. I'd like a little clarification on one line, if you don't mind . . .

"We can only have vaginal sex rarely (during definitely non-fertile parts of my cycle), so it was a treat I savored."

Can you elaborate? Why only rarely? Also, I gathered that most activity at this gathering is with condoms anwyay? Do I have that wrong? Thanks!

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SlutStack's avatar

yes, activity at this gathering is default condom required (except oral sex). I (Chesed) am currently trying to get pregnant and I have very little risk tolerance for getting pregnant by someone who isn't my husband! I restrict vaginal sex with other partners to require a condom *and* be well outside of my fertile window

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Jungle Pyramid Washer's avatar

STD party 🎉

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SlutStack's avatar

actually these parties have very strict STI testing policies! i suspect your risk from attending this orgy is similar or lower than the STI transmission risk from sleeping with someone new on a first date

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Chelsea McCarthy's avatar

Wow, wow, wow! So much going on here. I can’t imagine myself being there and yet I am so curious who I would be if I was! Please keep sharing. Love to read it.

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Bill Gullo's avatar

It’s just so excellent that you’re sharing this. So good for so many people

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Harry's avatar

You wild girls are silly. Hope you got lots of cheek-kisses from this adventure.

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Sectionalism Archive's avatar

What is actually the point of “consensual non consent” if you’re just using a different word for establishing non consent? It’s just consensual consent. It’s basically roleplay.

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Lynne's avatar

Yawn. I came for the voyeurism but left because of the emptiness.

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Matthew Alexander’s Logorrhea's avatar

Hazy memories (dissociation), no orgasm, and a game of trying to escape play-rapists. This is no way to deal with being sexually abused. At best it’s giving you false hope as to methods for dealing with trauma.

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SlutStack's avatar

I've never been sexually abused. Thank you for the concern!

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Barbara Hughes's avatar

And yet, here you are. Hungrily reading her and others exploits. Wanting what you can't ever have because some Patriarchal religious rules from 2000 years ago. Yawn. Try harder

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Autistic  Bisexual Libertarian's avatar

Society in decay. Similar things were probably happening toward the end of the Roman Empire, they just didn’t have mass communication to show it off to hedonistic gooners.

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Aella's avatar

actually the roman empire got very christian near the end

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Sectionalism Archive's avatar

Christianity prolonged the Roman Empire’s life. Roman civilization really lasted in Italy until the Lombards crushed it by force. Roman religion was, in my opinion, more true and morally superior to Christianity, but was in a sorry state by the time of Constantine

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James Harris's avatar

But did the orgies decline or improve in that context

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Autistic  Bisexual Libertarian's avatar

Subsets of it yes, others just doubled down on debauchery

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Aella's avatar

no it got really overwhelmingly christian. The emperors were Christian. Being not-christian was illegal, pagans were persecuted.

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Timeline's avatar

I forgot his name but the Visigoth dude who invaded North Africa saw this same shit in the brothels and he was disgusted

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